Further to my rant yesterday, my insane family member decided that since I had blocked and deleted her she would get on her husband's account to continue harassing me. I sent him a message and blocked and deleted him too. Apparently this nutcase has another FB account, LOL, so she gets on there and continues the tirade!!
Here's her post - let's have some fun commenting on it :)
yes, I told you to Fuck off H******. Are you so dense that you can't back off from any aspect of my family's affairs.
I commented on ONE post that her sister made. I posted a tiny paragraph about how children often have different experiences in the same household, and then a news article. My cousin then messaged me privately about this whole thing and at the end of our conversation she told me to "Fuck off". Ok, cool, done. I did. This response of hers is on her brother's post regarding COVID which I commented on, admittedly quite aggressively.
You are acting like a child. Nobody is blowing up your social media accounts because we have more tact and diplomacy. You blocked me because you don't have the ability to self-reflect and realize that you are totally out of control. You are hurting nobody but yourself and your family's reputation.
Acting like a child how? By commenting? Whose social media accounts are being blown up? You and I messaged privately, and I commented on your brother's post. What does it mean to be "totally out of control" exactly? Posting an opinion on social media is totally out of control?
I would be so embarrassed if I were your parent watching on as you attacked multiple cousins and family members online in a public forum.
Multiple cousins and family members? Who? Stop exaggerating.
Is it really worth it?
No, your miserable ass is not worth it, definitely not!!
********** [my dad] was tagged because you seem to really be struggling mentally by attacking your family members relentlessly. (untrue...)
I only wish that I could speak to my father if I was carrying so much hate, angst, and judgement on other family members. --> Victimizing because her father is deceased.
Your attacks on D***** are unjustified and relentless. He has had so much tact and compassion yet you seem to want to be aggressive towards him. For what? Why? Your personal opinions?
Fair argument. I was rude to D, for which I apologized publicly and privately.
I am aware that you have been attacking other family members on messenger also. (untrue)
Do you need help? Your family can help you with your mental distress. There are local distress centers in your area. If social media is causing you so much anxiety then you simply have the choice to recuse yourself - which you are incapable of doing. Seek help.
This is called gaslighting and is a well-known tactic by narcissists to call the reality of a person into question and make them seem off-balance.
Or maybe your tagged family member can help you and offer you sound reasoning and advice. If you are going to act like a child, you will be treated as such.
Please provide an explanation as to how I am acting like a child.
There is no room for you at this table H***** and you need to accept that. Nobody wants your aggression. Nobody here deserves your bullying tactics. You are not being objective. You are not persuading anyone that you are a victim. You need to take responsibility for your own actions and behaviours.
I took responsibility for what I said to D** and apologized. Can you read??
The apology you issued to Dan is not an apology. "I apologize for attacking you personally. To me that's how you come across." - this is not an apology for your actions, words, and behaviours. This is trying to justify your position yet again. Daniel has been so tactful and objective and you still feel the need to grind him down.
I agree that I had a caveat added to my apology that engendered insincerity. Therefore, I edited the apology (while keeping the original to provide accountability) and included that I appear insincere but do want to offer my sincere apology.
You blocked me. You blocked C***. You will no doubt block this account. Likely you will block J*****. Why? Because you open your big mouth, have to endear the consequences, and can't handle them so you make it so that you cannot see or hear that you are wrong. You started this all, and now you can't accept that you made bad choices and have upset much of the family and continue to speak behind their backs.
I blocked you cuz you told me to fuck off. I blocked your husband because you used him to get at me; also he's not my friend so no reason to have him on my list. I didn't block this other account of yours but I sure will delete you cuz there's no reason to keep you on my life. I haven't blocked my uncle yet, but I might if he's an asshole to me. So, what, are your "consequences" that you rake me over the coals and publicly deride me like this is an episode of Game of Throne? I mean, how much time did you spend on all this garbage exactly??
"Upset much of the family"? Like who? So far I'm seeing you and J ... not even D has said he's upset. If people have a problem, they can come to me about it.
I do not believe in speaking about people behind their backs, nor is it good practice or business to speak about them when they are not in the room. So out of transparency, I wrote on my wall about you last night, and I have named you personally, so that all of our family can see. It's an embarrassment to have had to write this. It's likely embarrassing for our family members to have to read this. And it's a tarnish on the S****** family name.
You didn't have to write any of it LMAO. You decided to do it so as to publicly shame me like I am some small child. The only thing you have succeeded in doing is making yourself look like a petty bully. You did not include any specifics. You just made a bunch of defamatory statements without any evidence. What is the point of your post exactly??
So many people are begging you to stop.
Actually it's just you.
D***** has and you refuse to read between the lines.
Actually he hasn't.
I have and you refused to read between the lines - so I point blank told you to Fuck off and butt out in a private message. You are not being respectful. You are crossing all sorts of lines.
An element of truth to this. I could have been more respectful, I will own that.
And many of us commenting and reading along or even receiving private messages about your behaviour (highly doubtful) feel so sorry that you can't give it a rest (you are the one continuing this and clearly being unable to give it a rest...) and leave your family members alone. I've said it - Enough. (Good. Can you STFU now??) You're out of control.
So what do you call your incessant harassment and messaging? Is that not "out of control"??
Well that was loads of fun!! I can't respond to this person because they are blocked on facebook, thank god! They are clearly extremely miserable and get off on making others look bad. I feel utterly sorry for them.
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